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Unstoppable Energy Tip

9/12/2017

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What people are you attracting? Do you have control over what type of people you attract into your life? Absolutely. If you’re wondering why certain types of people with certain types of behaviors keep showing up for you, take a good look at your thoughts and beliefs and you’ll see why.
 
For example, if you are attracting people who are particularly unhelpful and unsupportive, ask yourself where and how you are not supporting yourself.
 
If you encounter a lot of angry people, ask yourself what you are angry about – you may not even be aware that you are angry, it may be something that’s been buried very deeply, but if you look, it will be there.
 
When you identify the beliefs, and as a result you change your thoughts, you will change who shows up.
 
Years ago, when I was very insecure with no self-confidence, I found that I had people in my life who were manipulative and bullying, who disrespected other people and treated them (and me) badly. I discovered that because of how I felt about myself I treated myself very badly and was a bit of a bully to myself. Once I changed how I treated myself, those people went away and I haven’t attracted people with those behaviors since.
 
I think this quote sums it up quite well:
 
“Not only does the power of your thought determine which people make their way into your life, but the power of your thought determines how they behave once they get there.” – Abraham
 
Try this affirmation to help you bring more helpful and supportive people into your life:
 
“I deserve the best and I surround myself with people who support and inspire me.”

5 Comments
Linda Sherwin
9/14/2017 01:49:40 pm

Awesomely put, and so true.

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Gael Cuming Draper
9/15/2017 12:56:54 am

Thank you, Linda. You continue to be a blessing, inspiring us to enjoy this gift of life! What a wonderful journey.

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Amanda Dobra Hope
9/18/2017 09:42:00 am

Thank you Linda for your service in writing these energy tips.
I greatly enjoy them and you are doing an incredible service to humanity.
Best,
Amanda

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Dina Melucci link
9/18/2017 10:04:42 am

Hi Linda, woah, is that true and great advice. Can you elaborate on how to change out thoughts? I want the bullies out!!

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Linda Binns link
9/18/2017 10:56:49 am

Dina, if you are finding that you attract bullies, there could be a number of reasons. For example, people who are highly sensitive tend to attract people who try to manipulate or bully them. Or, your situation may be like mine was, where I was so mean and bullying to myself, that I attracted people who were bullies. Or it could be that you need to learn how to stand up for yourself and say no to people, and once you do then the bullies won't bother you any more.

So, as you can see, a lot depends on what's going on for you. One thing I like to do when someone like that comes into my life is to ask myself "What is this person teaching me about myself?" "What is it that I need to learn about myself so that I can move on?"

The mind shift is to see this person as someone who is in your life for a reason - to teach you something about yourself. Once you have that mind shift, and you learn whatever you need to learn, then you don't need the situation any more.

So rather than focusing on the other person and their bullying behavior, you focus on yourself and what you need to learn.

Hope that helps.

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