Take time out... When you have a long to-do list, people are counting on you, and it seems like there just aren’t enough hours in the day what do you do? If you’re like most people you push through, and force yourself to get as much done as possible. The last thing you feel you can do is take any time for yourself.

But what if taking a break (even just 5 minutes or so) to do something different, to take a walk or to sit quietly and just breathe could actually help you get more things done?

Would you be willing to give it a try? It really does work. I didn’t believe it at first either, but it does work. Give it a try.

A recent study showed that about 20% of employees no longer take a lunch break because they’re afraid their boss will think they’re not working hard enough and that they’ll be judged by their co-workers.

This can also be true for those who work for themselves, sometimes even more so. They have a lot to do, and feel that taking a break (even a lunch break) would affect their productivity.

The studies show the opposite. Taking regular breaks has many benefits, including:

• Increased productivity
• Improved mental well-being
• Boosts creativity
• Improved self-care

Plan regular breaks into your day and watch your health, well-being, AND your productivity soar.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda
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The light within... A beautiful quote. I think it’s so easy to lose touch with who you really are when you’re being pulled in so many different directions, and when you feel misunderstood or isolated. We should all help to remind each other of the beauty and strength that is in each of us.

We tend not to think of ourselves very often in terms of our strengths, or our magnificence. Instead we seem to focus on what we don’t like about ourselves, what’s not working out well in our lives and the struggles we’re experiencing.

It seems vain or selfish to think of ourselves in positive terms somehow. How do we connect with this light within us, particularly in difficult times when it’s easy to forget the good things?

Somebody shared with me recently a suggestion which I really like. They recommended writing down every day the best thing about that day. Something good that happened, something that made you feel good. You write it down on a piece of paper, fold it up and put it in a jar. Then at the end of the year you can go back and look through them as a reminder of all the good things that happened.

I think it would also be helpful to pull some of those out when you’re feeling low or are struggling. Reminding yourself of all that’s good in your life like this is a wonderful thing to do because it’s so easy to forget.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

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Managing your energy… When you drive your car you know when your fuel tank is nearly empty. You see it on the display and you know that it’s time to fill the car with more fuel.

Unfortunately, you don’t come with a fuel gauge, so it’s not always easy to know when your energy is depleted and you’re running on empty. That’s why it’s important to become very self-aware, so that you know your energy highs and lows, you know what depletes you, and you know when your energy needs a boost.

When you’re busy and you’re being pulled in many different directions, it’s easy to force yourself to keep going. But this is like trying to drive your car without fuel – eventually it’s going to stop, and so will you. Ideally, you don’t want to get to that point.

That’s why it’s important to check in with yourself and take regular energy breaks. You might think that you don’t have time for self-care and you’ll have to get to it later. But taking care of your energy doesn’t have to be time-consuming. In fact, the more you pay attention to it, the less time it takes.

It can be as simple as stopping what you’re doing and taking 3 slow, deep breaths – focusing on your breath as you do so. That can be enough for an energy reset when you’re busy. Or you can walk away from something for 5 minutes – even 1 or 2 minutes would help.

The most important thing is paying attention to how you feel – because how you feel is like your fuel gauge. This is how you know when it’s time to manage your energy. When you feel good, your energy vibration is high and your tank is full. When you don’t feel good (stressed, angry, overwhelmed, frustrated, etc.) it’s time to pause a moment and see what you can do to take care of yourself.

You could even ask yourself “what can I do to take care of myself right now/today?” Paying attention in this way and doing small things to manage your energy on a daily basis really pays off.

Action Step: For the next week make a point of checking in with yourself several times each day and noticing when your energy is low and you don’t feel good. Identify what you can do to give your energy a boost.
 
Let this Unstoppable Affirmation support you on your journey:

My energy is my highest priority. I lovingly take care of my energy at all times.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

Do you tend to worry? This week’s tip is inspired by a quote I saw recently:

“Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don’t want.” – Abraham/Hicks

Even when you know this is true, it’s sometimes difficult to stop worrying isn’t it? The mind just seems to want think about every possible negative scenario.

Some people seem to breeze through life and never worry about anything, and others worry about every little detail. Worriers also tend to believe that they cannot change. I often hear “That’s just who I am, I can’t change it.” But you can change it, and if you want to stop creating things you don’t want it’s important that you do.

Although I wouldn’t say I was a chronic worrier, I certainly used to worry a lot more than I do now. I have also worked with several people who worried a lot and thought they couldn’t change, but they have.

It seems counter-intuitive, I know, to think that relaxing and letting go of a difficult situation will resolve it more effectively than worrying about it, but it’s true. But how do you do that? Here are a few ideas and suggestions that work for me and those I work with:

• Write it out – sometimes just writing about it can stop your mind from churning. Putting all your concerns down on paper can also bring clarity. You can identify what you’re really afraid of and that can help you to let it go.
  
  
• Talk it through – often, it can really help to just talk things through with somebody who will listen and not judge. They may try to offer helpful suggestions though, so if you don’t want them to do that, let them know ahead of time that you just want them to listen. It’s surprising how often things become clearer and less stressful when you talk them through with someone.
  
  
• Use this Louise Hay Affirmation - Out of this situation only good will come, for the highest good of everyone. I am safe. I find this really helps to calm the mind and body down and take away a lot of the constant thinking.
  
  
• Find things to be grateful for - When your mind is focused only on what’s not working, shifting your focus onto what’s going well and what you appreciate can make all the difference.
  
  
• Breathe – put your attention on your breathing. Slow it down and really focus on the breath as you breathe in and out. Feel it in your body. Do this several times during the day and it will help you feel calmer.

It’s really difficult for solutions to come when you are in a state of chronic worry. Calming your mind and body, focusing on what you want (instead of what you don’t) and on what you’re grateful for puts you in a more receptive state where ideas and solutions can come.

Action Step: Whenever you are particularly worried about something apply these suggestions. As you find this starts to work you’ll be able to let go of worrying a little bit at a time.

Let this Unstoppable Affirmation support you on your journey:

I release the need to worry. Life supports me and I am safe.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

Making Difficult Decisions… Sometimes you’re faced with making a decision about something and none of the choices that you have seem ideal. You know that you don’t want things to stay the way they are, but none of the alternatives seem to be acceptable. Usually what happens is that you churn it over and over in your mind looking for a solution and becoming more and more frustrated as you can’t find one.

When you’re in the middle of something like this it can feel like you’re going crazy. You can’t stop thinking about it and anything you do doesn’t seem to help or perhaps even makes things worse. There seems to be no way out.

When you’re faced with a situation like this, here are some strategies that will help:

1. You must find a way to calm your mind – writing can help, venting all your frustrations onto paper can get the thoughts out of your mind. Walking (particularly outside), spending time in nature, or exercising can also help. What will really help is to make a point several times during the day of focusing on your breathing – just notice your breath going in and out and keep your attention there as long as you can. This can stop the incessant thoughts for a while.
   
   
2. When your mind is in a calmer state, think about the choices that are available to you. You may want to write them out and list the pros and cons of each.
   
   
3. Tell yourself that there is no wrong decision. There are only choices and each choice leads to certain outcomes.
   
   
4. Now look at each of the choices and possible outcomes and see which one feels right for you. You may want to visualize yourself making each of the choices and living with what comes as a result of that choice. Pay attention to how you feel.
   
   
5. Once you’ve identified which one feels right in this moment, be clear about your reasons for making that choice. For example, you may choose to stay in a job that you don’t enjoy because you need the money. That’s a choice and you have a clear reason for making it.
   
   
6. Now you must be at peace with that choice. Whatever it is and whatever your reasons for choosing it, that is the right decision for you in this moment. Accept it and feel good about it. Don’t second-guess yourself.
   
   
7. Even if the choice is not ideal (like staying in a job you don’t like because you need the money) find things to feel good about in the situation. For example, you may not enjoy the job, but it is providing you with income and that’s something to feel good about.
   

Often we’re so afraid of making the wrong choice that we become paralyzed. The important thing is to be at peace with the choice you make. Once you’ve made it and feel good about it, you’ll be surprised at how often other options open themselves up to you – things that you didn’t think were possible before.

Let this Unstoppable Affirmation support you on your journey:

I trust myself to make decisions that are right for me. Life supports me always and in all ways.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

Connecting with Yourself… In our attempts to improve our life situations – relationships, career, health, finances, and so on, there is one thing that’s often overlooked, and that is self-connection.

The deeper your connection to yourself, the more meaning and fulfillment you experience in your life. Your relationships improve, and you gain greater clarity about all situations. Yet it’s something that is often overlooked. People often feel guilty and selfish if they focus in any way on themselves. Yet it is the opposite of selfish.

Also, for many people, the idea of a deeper connection with themselves is not appealing. They are afraid of what they will find if they look too deeply. If you feel this way it’s like to be because you are very identified with your thoughts.

As Eckhart Tolle says: “Thought can be so seductive and hypnotic that it absorbs your attention totally, so you become your thoughts.” He also says: “To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love and joy underneath the pain, is freedom, salvation, enlightenment.”

When you are really connected with yourself you stop giving your power away to others. You realize that you have the ability to change things simply by paying attention to your thoughts and feelings and allowing yourself to go through them.

The more connected you are, the more self-compassion you have, and according to a recent psychology article I read “Research shows that self-compassion actually correlates to better results whether it be performing in a race, in a courtroom, or even feeling comfortable in our own selves.”

Connecting with yourself is a daily process. It means paying attention to your thoughts and feelings, being kind to yourself and letting go of judgments.

Action Step: One simple way to create a deeper self-connection is to think of a current situation you are experiencing that feels difficult or overwhelming. Identify exactly how you feel, allow yourself to feel it, and then ask yourself “what is it I need to learn from this situation so that I can move on?” Relax and allow the answer to come to you over time, and don’t get frustrated if it doesn’t come right away. This is a great start to a deeper self-connection.

Let this Unstoppable Affirmation support you on your journey:

I am willing to connect more deeply with myself and learn from every thought, emotion and experience.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

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Allowing opportunities… Have you ever experienced a time where you try to do or resolve something or figure something out only to find that it seems impossible? So you let it go, perhaps in frustration, and then sometime later the ideal solution shows up or the situation naturally resolves itself?

That’s no accident. In fact it’s the letting go, or surrendering of the situation that allows the solution or new opportunity to come to you.

I’ve had several examples of this over the last year or so. Two in particular relate to some specific health challenges where I left no stone unturned in order to find the right solution, with no success. In one case I was told very specifically by more than one practitioner that there was nothing that could be done, it was just something I had to live with.

I don’t like to give up, but I now know the value of surrendering. Surrendering is not giving up, it’s more like letting go of the need to try and figure it out. In each case, after letting it go, sometime later I was inspired to think about it again and this time the perfect person was put in front of me with the solutions I needed, and it was so easy.

Sometimes I think we can be so attached to finding a solution, making a change or fixing something that we get in our own way. Letting go seems like giving up and so we stay with it thinking there must be something we’re missing. If we could only figure it out everything would be fine.

It’s holding onto it mentally that gets in the way and stops the right opportunity from showing up. Letting it go ultimately relieves stress and anxiety and brings a new clarity to your mind. Then you must pay attention to any impulse you feel to talk to someone or look in a certain place or read a certain book and follow where it leads you.

This is how you allow the opportunities you want to come to you, rather than you trying to chase them down. I used to pride myself on my ability to figure things out and find solutions. But what do you do when that doesn’t work anymore? You surrender, move onto something else and then you allow what you need to come to you.

I think it’s the simplicity of that that often puts us off, and that fact that letting go of the need to figure it out feels like giving up.

Action Step: Think of something you’ve been trying to figure out or change (perhaps it’s best to start with something small). Decide to let go of the need to find the solution. See if you can surrender it and move onto other things. See what happens!

Let this Unstoppable Affirmation support you on your journey:

I release the need to figure this out or find an answer right now. I allow solutions and opportunities to find me.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

What did you learn? The end of the year is the perfect time to look back and reflect on what happened during the year and on your goals and intentions for the upcoming year. I’d like to add one thing to that – and that is to consider the question: what did you learn about yourself this year?

Every experience and interaction is an opportunity to learn something helpful about yourself – particularly the difficult ones. I think we’re constantly learning and growing (sometimes reluctantly perhaps). If you’ve had a challenging experience and you don’t want to repeat it, the important thing is to identify what that experience has taught you. When you understand the lesson, then you don’t need that type of experience any more.

That’s why I think it’s helpful to consider what you have learned throughout the year and think about how you can build on that in the future.

Action Step: Reflect on your year and ask yourself what you have learned about yourself from your experiences. How can you build on what you have learned so you can move forward, rather than staying stuck in the same patterns?

Let this Unstoppable Affirmation support you on your journey:

Every day I am learning, growing, evolving and expanding. I am focused on being the best I can be at all times.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

The little things… When you want something to change or improve, it’s usually something quite major – you might want to improve your finances, or your health, find a new house or perhaps you need a new car or you want a better job, for example.

So you focus on what you want, which is good, because you want to put energy towards it. What you might miss though is the fact that focusing exclusively on what you want is not the whole answer. In fact it could stop it from coming to you.

What we often forget is to acknowledge and consistently appreciate what we have now. I don’t just mean having an attitude of gratitude (which is important). I mean appreciating every little thing that we take for granted, because those little things are really incredibly significant and important.

For example, as I sat in bed this morning I could feel my heart beating, I am breathing, I can hear and see, I have both my legs and my arms. I have both of my feet. I can walk. I appreciated the peace and quiet of my neighborhood. The fact that I’m fortunate enough to work from my home and I don’t have to commute to work. I enjoyed a wonderful shower with hot water. My home is warm and comfortable. I have food to eat. These are things that are easy to take for granted because I experience them every day.

Are there things I want to improve? Absolutely. But if I focus exclusively on those things it’s so easy to miss the everyday miracles that I may take for granted.

I was reminded of this recently at the gym I go to where I saw a young woman with one leg doing squats, and a man in a wheelchair who was doing pullups.

Acknowledgement and appreciation of the everyday things, even the smallest things, and particularly the things you take for granted, helps you be present, and it helps to raise your vibration to the frequency where what you want can come.

It sounds so simple, and it is, but we often struggle to achieve and maintain this frequency because some part of us keeps pulling our thoughts back to what is lacking and what could be better. The challenge then is to watch out for this and to address those parts of us that keep us stuck in a lower vibration. This is the fear, the old conditioning and the part of us that thinks we’re not good enough.

Action Step: For the next week spend a couple of minutes every morning before you get out of bed acknowledging all that’s good about you, your body, your life and everything that you have. See if you can remember to do this throughout the day too. Whenever your mind wants to pull you back with thoughts of what you don’t have yet and what’s not good, try to identify where that’s coming from and gently choose to go back to thoughts that feel better. Observe any changes that happen as a result.

Let this Unstoppable Affirmation support you on your journey:

I now choose to raise my vibration by focusing my thoughts on everything that feels good and positive and I release all thoughts and beliefs that do not support me.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

When you undervalue yourself… Like many people, I undervalued myself for most of my life. It’s something I’ve worked on a lot and have been shocked to find not only how deeply this went, but also how it showed up for me every day in my life.

I think it’s something that affects a great many people. Even some of the people who appear to be the most confident, assertive, and maybe even aggressive, often act this way to cover up their real feelings of insecurity and low self-worth.

There are many ways that this can show up – here are few:

• Frequently doubting yourself
  
• Other people have the ability to upset you or diminish you in some way
• Experiencing feelings of guilt or shame and generally not good enough
• Holding yourself back because you’re afraid you’ll fail
• Finding yourself in a career you don’t enjoy
• Struggling financially
• Feeling anxious, shy or intimidated’
• Looking for people or situations to blame
• Feeling that life is unfair
• Over-achieving
• Taking on other people’s dramas or pain
• Needing people to like you
• Perfectionism

As you can see, there’s quite a list – and I could add more!

Comparing yourself to others is, perhaps one of the most common signs of under-valuing, and yet it’s probably something we all do from time to time.

If you are highly sensitive then this is most certainly something that you’ll want to address.

Undervaluing yourself and what you do causes others to undervalue you too. When you begin to really value yourself you will notice a shift in your relationships and experiences, and very importantly in how you feel. As with everything, the first step to change is awareness, the second is a willingness to change.

Action Step: Pay attention throughout the day, and the week, to any signs and signals of undervaluing – really any time you don’t feel good about yourself, or when you feel a need to prove yourself. Begin to build an awareness of how this shows up for you. Remember, awareness is the first step towards change.

Let this Unstoppable Affirmation support you on your journey:

I release the need or desire to undervalue myself in any way and I forgive myself for all the times I have felt undervalued in the past.

Be Unstoppable!

Linda

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